Monday, May 7, 2012

Back to writing

K so I'm gonna back off the FB for a lil while and just jot the things that go on in my mind here. Hit the gym n ran 8miles!!! Yes! Got told by my best friends they're moving back to MS. That sucks. I'm really gonna miss them a lot but they gotta live their life n do best by them. Hope they make the right choice. Now I'll be with friends who don't know my Bday or when i need a hug. Siiiiigh. Glad I got the damn dog :)



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Sunday, April 8, 2012

Identity Gift?

Identity theft is a big problem worldwide and it is up to each individual to track at the very least their account activity once at year "https://www.annualcreditreport.com/cra/index.jsp"

If you have any discrepancies on there, report them immediately and DISPUTE. Also if you wanna save yourself money for those con artists who can "wipe your credit report clean" send at least ten letters to each on the three agencies and they will make cases for each dispute, more than likely drop the ball on one of the disputes thus eliminating the negative item off your report.
I use to work for a credit reporting agency and this is exactly what those people you pay money do...Go buy a book of stamps, envelopes, pen and paper. Feel free to buy me a drink (I don't do rail) when you see the savings I did for you, and if they don't wipe anything off you still saved money buy not hiring clowns to do what I just told you to do, or HEY PAY UR DEBTS OFF!

Now when a crappy bank, let's call them Fells Wargo takes the initiative to populate your name on an business account along with your email address & social security number, we call that identity gift. So I believe the first time I spoke with the ever so friendly crew at Wells Fargo I told them delete my info from this account. This is not me. I stopped receiving e-mails from this business account. Today I check my mailbox and see a business platinum debit card for this account. I called the business up who wasn't as friendly on Easter Sunday which is expected but hey! The white guy in me is just trying to be a nice guy and do the right thing. But the latino came out when the chap was like "I ain't no mexican". I ended the call at that point. Onto Fells Wargo and their BRILLIANT customer service. I spoke with a Jane and verified my identity with this account. How the hell did I get that far??? Rubbish! Ok, so now it's business time...I told her if Fells Wargo ever...EVER sent me a card again, that is attached to my social I WILL BLEEED THAT ACCOUNT DRY WITHOUT ANY REMORSE. To which they responded, Go ahead, it's a debit account. Wow, I'm so glad I'm not the one gettin screwed with no lube! Someone will definitely see this as fraud and I tell you what...if my social is tied to that account I want them to bring it! Let's see what they got!

So tomorrow I will go to a branch, have tea *because in these situation it's good to have tea - how I soo miss living in the Middle East* and verify my identity and find out what is tied to this account.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

*whiny post* Kitchen remodeling

So if I can save anyone out there the STRESS...again the STRESS, MONEY and STRESS of getting a new kitchen, I'd say unless you have somewhere else to live, DON'T DO IT. I'm seriously over this 2-3month old fucking project. I'm fucking over it. I can't get Kraftmaid to help me out (oh I'm so yelping them) and MidSouth for the shit they're putting me through.

Everyone tells me once it's done it'll be great. Yeah well then you sit in this fuckin disorganized house and let me know when it's done. Ok that's all just had to get that off my chest. I will NOT redo the bathrooms. Good God, how fucking long will that project take if I can't get a god damn motherfucking kitchen complete in 3 fucking months?!?


W0000000000000000000saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

So final posts from this whole workout bit

Before: (DEC2011)









After (FEB2012)









Well $900 later I def feel my belly. I'm not sure how much beefier I got but will shred it down come march. I have no kitchen right now but can't wait for remodeling to be complete so I can start cooking again! Sink comes in this Monday :)

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Sunday, February 12, 2012

Just reading some older blogs

Sunday, September 14, 2008, AWESOME weekend

Wow how time flies...I was just looking up what I tagged as Whitney and to see the strong love I had for someone amazes me. How blind love can be. I love knowing that I could feel a strong love like that, but F! I hate...*I HATE*....HATE, not being in control. Love, sometimes your a car that drives way to fast for me. But I love speed and will get back on that horse again.

~ Marlon, thanks for the memories. I had no idea I could feel so high. The other side of that spectrum felt like shit. But I'll never forget how high up there I was, singing Jessica Simpson - I Think I'm in Love. LOL! It actually makes my heart happy to picture myself singing with love. You, your gone and done. You served your purpose, again thanks for the memories...NEXT

Farewell legendary icon, Whitney Houston



Whitney it was 835pm when I saw my phone alert go off! Your music was and will still be gay candy for my soul whenever I need to sing (and I can't sing, girl! but damn it still feels good).

This was the easiest song to pick from you...Baby when I was down and alone. This song was a true inspiration. I couldn't wait to find it! It NEVER WAS EASY TO ACHIEVE but man....Finding myself gives a fulfillment. I don't feel lonely. I would love to share my life with someone but wouldn't give in to that feeling if I had to lose the love for myself. Thank-you for being an inspiration. Your voice will be missed and your being will be mourned, but your energy shall not fade.

~ xoxo

Friday, February 10, 2012

Crap...not blogging! Blah!

So yesterday my mom left on her 3 year tour to Germany. I took her out for some sushi and we hugged goodbye afterwards. I didn't cry and that puzzled me. I don't want to manifest tears, but perhaps it hasn't hit me yet that mom will be gone for three years, or maybe I've just been in and out that it just feels like Geography. I'd rather her be 3500 miles apart than 6 feet under! So I guess it's really not so much "Goodbye" but, have fun!

That or I've turned heartless.



Or insensitive. I wouldn't mind picking that puzzle piece back up. I'm always there for my friends and family but man it feels lacking inside.

What else is new. Oh Reese is going through her rebellious teenage years. She's decided that since this her home she'll do whatever she damn well pleases and give me "the eyes". So now when she does that she goes straight to her room. Her new thing is sleeping on Daddy's massage chair. Wow! The hell she will! So we got that going on....The new kitchen will be partially up Monday...we got a week of events next week.

02/13/2012 - New kitchen arrives (old cabinets go downstairs)
02/14/2012 - Granite & Dishwasher gets installed
02/14 - 02/19 - Continue kitchenette downstairs & clear out pantry
02/20/2012 - Pantry gets installed

Party to soon follow afterwards. So cheers to the end of February and Spring into 2012 with a new kitchen and kitchenette downstairs :-)

Yay ~ Bathrooms and hottub next! whee!